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happy 10th anniversary - 30 December 2015

it's our 10th year been together. happy pak-tohing for the 10th anniversary! still remember on this day, that you suddenly held my hand in ah chuan's car, and eventually we'd been officially together, and you followed me for my dad's new year eve dinner on the next day! once started, everything moved on so quickly, after we'd known each other for 4years since 2000. it's almost end year of 2015! and cant' believe it was such like a dream, which awake me from a big slap, which made me understand my love, my sacrifices will continue to determine in this family. we will wait for you, or should say, I will wait for you. dear, happy anniversary, and love you, as always 30 December 2015

冬至快乐 - 22 December 2015

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Happy Solstice to everyone! a year older, and a year wiser. What a great year of 2015. You & Me, we had grown, and we had learned. Wish the two of us, and our lovely kids, improving, and developing. we'll always love you

有一种境界叫放下有一种心态叫舍得有一种智慧叫包容

欲想放弃或破坏婚姻不如建设婚姻。 许多被大家看好的婚姻因为当事人漫不经心、吹毛求疵、急不可耐而可能很快就破碎了; 而那些在众人眼里并不被看好的 婚姻 , 因为两个人 用心 、细致、锲而不舍地经营,就如一棵纤弱的树, 后来居然能枝繁叶茂、郁郁葱葱。 可忍或可过的 婚姻 大抵也是如此,当事人稍一怠慢,它可能很快就会枯萎、凋零。 而双方如果用一种 积极 的 心态 去修补、保养、维护,也许奇迹就会发生。   有人说,静物是凝固的美,动景是流动的美;直线是流畅的美,曲线是婉转的美; 喧闹的城市是繁华的美,宁静的村庄是淡雅的美。生活中处处都有美, 只要你有一双发现美的眼睛,有一颗感悟美的 心灵 。 也许离婚对于某些人来说是一种解脱,但是离婚也并非是一种最佳的选择。 因为,它并不意味着离 理想 的 婚姻 更近一步。 美满的 家庭 生活需要悉心经营,我们不仅要爱家人,还要讲究爱的方式和技巧。    婚姻 则是一座花园,是需要 用心 呵护和耕耘的,如果随意对待, 花园内就会杂草丛生,一片荒芜。 而要想花园内四季风景怡人,花草鲜美, 你就要成为一个辛勤的园丁,精心地培育这块芳草地。 ㊣(编著:黄亚男,摘自:《现代阅读》自中国华侨出版社 《有一种 境界 叫放下有一种 心态 叫舍得有一种智慧叫 包容 大全集》感谢文字作者!, 感谢图片摄影作者!)

婚姻是需要忍耐

  婚姻 是需要忍耐的。 长久的持续的充满定力的忍耐。 忍耐一个任性的姑娘 成长 为干练的妻子, 忍耐一个办事不牢的小伙子成为坚如磐石的汉子。 忍耐孩子在啼哭和不断摔跤中长大, 忍耐彼此的白发和倦怠。 忍耐 性格 的摩擦和裂变, 忍耐 孤独 与风寒……    婚姻 无漏的理由只有一个,那就是爱。 因为有了爱,才会长出茁壮的忍耐。 忍耐 磨砺着爱的光洁, 使它在坚硬的同时润泽而美丽。

happy anniversary

happy 6th anniversary for 27 November. You always telling me that so much dates to remember, to celebrate, which will be consider the real anniversary? Yes, I do remember all our little dates. 27 November 2009 - our Wedding Reception @ Bagan Penang, and it had been closed down now. so much of memories. Dear, Happy Anniversary - wish we shall have more celebrations more memories

happy birthday 26.10.2015

happy birthday my dearest hubby 26.10.2015 the ever most quiet birthday celebration in our past 15 years i believe we shall be waiting for you for the cake cutting by tonight :) live well be happy we will always be waiting for you.

处女座

处女座对人的好感,往往缘于一些细节: 可能是你说的一句话,刚好说出了他心里没说出的想法,可能会让他觉得和你心有灵犀; 一个傻呵呵的憨憨的微笑,可能会让他感觉亲切无比; 你的一句脱口而出的想法,就能让他觉得你很率真。 其实处女座都很简单单纯,习惯于相濡以沫的感情。 a few times, that I saw you passing by at the opposite road, without any information, without any hints, we just passing by each other, and I manage to see you. sometimes, we think the same stuff that we wanted to buy, ended up, we bought the same type of food. we went to the same show, but different venue, different purpose, but somehow we had the same thoughts. #### I believe in fate ### I miss you and we always do

处女座天蝎座

specially dedicate this to you :) virgo vs scorpio 【处女座天蝎座】用心来算的组合。 大家谈恋爱喜欢算计,又喜欢看不过眼,不同的只是处女座会说出口,天蝎座藏在心而已。 好在你们对感情都有一种专注的深情,认为爱一个人就应该爱定, 一旦拍拖,少有节外生枝情况, 生活中总有小摩擦,时间久了要么忍受不了, 要么就相伴到老。 I will love you, as I always do

处女座的人

处女座的人: 1.有点抗拒别人接近; 2.爱纠结,不达目的过十年都不甘心; 3.容易喜欢上一个人,也容易厌烦; 4.爱的纯粹,不想保留; 5.讨厌束缚,喜欢自由; 6.极其讨厌虚伪、欺骗; 7.铁齿有主见,比较相信眼见为实; 8.有时候说话很毒; 9.偏执、敏感、隐忍; 10.耐心只表现在非常喜欢的人或物上 http://my.weibo.com/virgo/3900732161725027

处女座蜜语

都说处女不要太坚强,否则会没有人疼。 可是谁有知道,处女不自立不自强不坚强, 谁有在处女我需要肩膀的时候给处女温暖? 很多时候,处女是真的要坚强,是被迫在坚强。 谁不知道,再坚强的处女心里总有块伤? 不痛不代表没有被伤过。 如果你懂,请不要只看到处女的笑, 你要看到处女她心底的泪。 http://my.weibo.com/virgo/3899700824803688

天蝎

天蝎明明人在线明明想说话,还要学隐身; 明明很难过,明明很想哭,还要裂嘴笑; 明明很孤单,明明很害怕还要一个人; 明明想见面,明明很期待还要去拒绝; 明明心很乱,明明想人陪还要装沉默; 明明舍不得,明明放不下还要去放手; 明明在心里,明明很在乎还要无所谓。 天蝎的人真累。 copyright: http://my.weibo.com/zodiac/3900153603747633

missing diary - day132

I miss you please live well, stay well I wish we can restart a new fresh life with our beautiful sons stay in a without worries urban village forever in dream

happy birthday

a different celebration a quiet one without much of conversation, without the greetings from you but at least, we still have the dinner together, with the beloved kids :) that's more than enough. wish myself, a great happy 36th birthday! just something that I always wanted to wish for. I miss you, and thank you :)

祝福

【致处女座】 我或许不是一个长情的人,或许不是一个痴情的人。 但是我知道,一旦我喜欢上了某个人,会为了那个人而做很多很多自己从未为别人做过的事。也会为了那个人而只专注这个人,眼里看不进任何一个人的身影。 在我眼里你是最特别的。 而一旦你有了别人了, 我也会决然地默默地退出祝福你。

18.08.2015

today 18.08.2015 and it has been almost 3 and the half month. - I cant believe I'm still here surviving - my colleagues gave me a 'like' specially, thanks to the mental support from my beloved besties, my colleagues, thanks to my beloved sons who always cheer me up, and keep me living day by day. somehow, let things be gone has by gone, and let it happen as what it should. like we always say, as long we are doing our best, we just can't force what it should be going to happen. I feel deeply sorry for the Bangkok explosion that happened yesterday, sorry for not always concerning about the world news, and being so emotional. Somehow, we human, has so much to concern than rather just to care about personal feelings. there are just way too much for us to concern in this world. we are just so tiny to compare with all those un-fortunate. learn to be more mature, be more wisdom - like one of my bestie always said. learn to love you

3months

today is the official 3months i miss you please take good care of yourself 

今天发生的三件好事

saw my fella still insisting jotting down the good deeds that he is doing, I know I should be start doing this to keep my life going on :) - today the 3 good deeds that I'd done - 1) I left the remaining overnight dishes to the stray dogs and cats 2) I offered myself to help a nanny to reverse her car in a parking lot 3) I manage to spend less than 10bux today :) yes, keep the determine, my life will be stronger, good for you, good for me, good for everyone!

never give up

i know the war is not going to be easy, for the both of us. but as long i'm still breathing, i will never give up, i will be still determined. it's not because i'm stubborn it's because i still care.